It's fairly standard by our traditions at home, but I was uncertain if those would carry over here... I did hope that the intent, at least, would be sufficient. [He nods slightly, satisfied, though he also adds:] If you have particular preferences, I will of course keep them in mind.

[For a few moments, he seems to be considering something else, organizing what he might want to ask-- finally, he seems to settle on it.]

Starting at the beginning is as good a place as any: why me? I suppose I can guess at why for myself, but I would still like to hear your answer.